In Her Own Words
About her
"Had we but world enough and time".........Just briefly the majority of my snaps were taken over the last three years. Snap no 6 (looking rather like a startled ostrich) was taken this year; Hair put up on top with a cheeky smile, sums me up l think.
brief description retired art lecturer/teacher, an artist/sculptor. somewhat bosomy, hair now more white than blonde, know exactly want l want and don't want, which you will discover the more you read. No shrinking violet, I am a woman who enjoys love with my partner and to be in love is sublime.
However, It appears to me that the men on the dating site fall into two categories. Those who want a full relationship making a foundation built on love and trust to support each other no matter what life throws at us. Of course this takes time and depends at first on the magic world "chemistry"
Then there is the other type of man who wants a friend with "benefits" and oh boy there is a lot of those. Somebody to go to the cinema, theatre, concert and on holiday and of course somebody to share the occasional bedroom activity.
Of course there are women who also fall into these categories too and they want the same thing as you for various reasons, so hopefully you find each other.
Well I am making it quite clear that I am not at all interested in meeting any man who wants a friend with benefits. I had a very happy marriage with a wonderful man( until he died of cancer) and want that happiness again, knowing a relationship means compromise on both sides, but honesty, kindness and love conquers all.
Although l have a lot to offer as a loving, kind and affectionate person Ido need my own space at times, as I am sure you need yours. We do not need to have the same interests but good if they cross over.
I enjoy male company but also have dear female friends and a large family who I love and care about...
So if you are brave write to me I will reply with a one liner if my sub has run out. If not then good luck with your search.
Loveday xxx
About her ideal match
I am an affectionate, warm loving woman who does not find it hard to say sorry when she is in the wrong and would hope that any man I was with would be the same. Likewise I am able to laugh at myself, am not pompous nor do I possess an outsize ego that stops me from being human, conversely I would want a man with the same ideals.
I was married to an academic so an intelligent man is on my list but know that a degree does not necessarily make you intelligent.
I do not give a dam what you look like, tall, fat, thin, short, bald or hairy none of that matter nor does age, it's you the person that really counts.
I do not like bad tempered, bullies, sarcastic, mean or spiteful men and yes real men do cry are sensitive and have have the same amount of feelings as women.
Also to realise I am not here to be your cook, cleaner, gardener, housewife nor do I expect to be waited on hand and foot.
Of course I am not perfect but I do promise to make you laugh and remember what it is like to be young again and why it is still good to be alive.... yes really, why we have the rest of our lives to enjoy and discover each other and all that life offers...perhaps life at the moment is very serious for us all but we do need to start laughing again, because there is not much laughter in the graveyard and 'times winged chariot" is calling ever nearer, we need to make up for lost time.
Loveday xxxxx
(and yes that is my real name 7th Century English)
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Haywards Heath (Horsham), West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Turkish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
66 - 95 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; Gaelic / Irish; Hebrew; Norwegian; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly; Wild; Well-behaved; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Acting; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Cycling; Dance; Fishing; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Sailing; Shooting; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Other |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
