About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Weston-Super-Mare (Cheddar), Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Bristol; Dorset; Gloucestershire; Somerset; Wiltshire; Gwent (England; Wales, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 59 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
I enjoy running - I’m not fast - but I will be doing the 2021 London Marathon! 🤦♂️ I also enjoy board games, trips in my VW camper, a walk to a pub for a pint of real ale, or an evening in with a glass of wine. I’m loyal, generally laid back, tactile, more listener than talker, caring and considerate of others, but am missing coffee or breakfast in bed, hugs, holding hands, and generally having someone to be a great team with. I keep in shape, and have been told I don’t look my age. A lady friend said recently I look sexy in my running gear, but she possibly needed a visit to Specsavers 🤣
Musical taste mainly 70’s to 00’s, plus some newer artists and tunes - and I also play keyboard but not to a performance standard, too many bum notes. Although I once was a cartographer, I’m not that arty - I now maintain some small business websites, with an e-shop as a side hustle and lockdown brought an early chance of semi-retirement. Not really into politics, religion, “alternative” topics, open water sport or horse riding, and I am a cat person rather than a dog person. I’ll occasionally watch F1 or football, but I don’t understand rugby! 🤔 I’m involved in a few community projects and recently helped deliver a new parkrun event. Personality type is ISFJ.
Originally from London, living in Somerset since 2001. Not been beyond Europe and Ireland, but seeing the Northern Lights in Scandinavia would be nice, or Iceland, Italy, Swiss railways, and of course being a board gamer, Carcassonne or Santorini! Plenty of great places in the UK I’ve not seen though too.
Two grown-up kids still live at home (one about to head abroad to work). Amicable divorce process under way after being separated since 2016 and I’ve been dating since about 2019, been on a bit of a rollercoaster ride with it to be honest and would quite like to stop! 🤣 But the kids are very supportive of my search and I’m feeling really positive about finding a new partner, could it be you?
If you are still here...
About his ideal match
I’m pretty open to possibilities to be honest, as long as you are genuinely seeking a long-term partner. Mutual trust and respect, chemistry, intimacy, and just wanting to spend time with each other, are important. Fulfilling each other’s needs, a sense of humour, open mind and perhaps some shared musical tastes would be good too - maybe even Eurovision?
Perhaps you’re up for a doing a parkrun with me, or a bit of cycling, hiking, plogging, volunteer work, maybe a wander round a historic property, a week on a narrowboat, playing Scrabble or other board or card games, going to a festival, doing a quiz, or maybe even a romantic weekend somewhere. I’ll also happily support you in whatever fills your life (unless that involves being a conspiracy theorist or Covid sceptic!) and maybe we will find some new things to share too.
Also, athough I could consider living somewhere else, if you live or have connections within an hour or two’s drive, it would be a bonus. If you are further away, please get in touch anyway and let me know how you think we could meet and how it could work?
Finally I guess we’ve probably both been through some tough times to get here, but let’s learn from them and not allow them to spoil our future plans. 😀
What His Friends Say
Sheila said...
Martin is genuine, honest, caring and fun. We spent 3 happy months together. He is one of the most supportive people I have ever met. Martin puts thought into everything he says and does and is a good catch for any lady. Distance and my family circumstances mean that I have lost this lovely man. Make sure you don't miss out and get to know him before someone else snaps him up.
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Cycling; Hiking; Running; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |
