About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Weston-Super-Mare (Cheddar), Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Bristol; Somerset (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
So yes, I enjoy board games, trips in my VW camper, a walk to a pub for a pint of real ale, or an evening in with a glass of wine. I do parkruns, the odd 10k and half marathon, I also did the 2021 London Marathon (very slowly) and recently discovered the joy of e-biking. I’m loyal, generally laid back, tactile, more listener than talker, and am caring and considerate of others. I miss coffee or breakfast in bed, affection, and generally having someone to be a great team with. I have been told I don’t look my age, but you’ll have to be the judge of that! 😀
Musical taste mainly 70’s to 00’s, especially tuneful stuff with guitar/keyboard solos, orchestration, and/or great lyrics, plus some newer stuff too. I play piano/keyboard but not to a performance standard (too many bum notes), although have had more time to practice recently so might be improving. Although I once was a cartographer, I’m not that arty. I’m semi-retired, looking after some small business websites, doing some delivery driving and volunteer work. Not really into politics, religion, “alternative” topics, adrenaline sports or horse riding, and I am a cat person rather than a dog person. I’ll occasionally watch F1 or football, but I don’t understand rugby! 🤔 Personality type is ISFJ if that helps.
Originally from London, living in Somerset since 2001. Not done masses of travelling, barely been beyond Europe and Ireland. Yes there are some places in the world I’d like to visit, but there are also many great places in the UK I’ve not seen that would be worthy of a camper trip!
Amicable divorce process slowly progressing after being separated since 2016, a fair bit to sort out, but it should all resolve as post-Covid normality returns. I’ve been dating since 2019 with mixed results, but the kids still encourage me, and I am positive about finding a new partner eventually, could it be you?
About his ideal match
Someone who is seeking a new long-term partner. Mutual trust and respect, loyalty, chemistry, intimacy, and just wanting to spend time with each other, are important. Fulfilling each other’s needs, a sense of humour, and perhaps some shared musical tastes would be good too. But I’m fairly open minded and I’ll also happily support you in whatever fills your life as long as you’re not a Covid sceptic or conspiracy theorist! Maybe we will find some new things to share too. Perhaps you can teach me to play tennis or badminton, or how to dance?
Also, athough I could consider living somewhere else, part or full time, work commitments and fuel costs mean it would probably be more practical if you weren’t too far away…maybe up to an hour or so’s drive?
Finally I guess we’ve probably both been through some tough times to get here, but let’s move on, learn from them and not allow them to spoil our future plans. Have previously met some lovely ladies on here, but no long term success so have taken a break from dating for a few months. Have recharged, ready to go again, and I remain optimistic that the right person is out there! Do send me a message, particularly if you’re in my area, I will respond.
What His Friends Say
Sheila said...
Martin is genuine, honest, caring and fun. We spent 3 happy months together. He is one of the most supportive people I have ever met. Martin puts thought into everything he says and does and is a good catch for any lady. Distance and my family circumstances mean that I have lost this lovely man. Make sure you don't miss out and get to know him before someone else snaps him up.
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Cycling; Hiking; Running; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |