In Her Own Words
About her
Upfront, I am in California. Yes, it's a big pond, and yes, there are lots of guys here, but the type of guys I meet don't seem to resonate with me. I grew up in New York State, so perhaps it's a cultural type thing (East vs. West Coast?) I'm just wondering if the grass is greener on the other side of the proverbial pond.... There's also these great inventions of the internet, telephone, texting, and jet airplanes.... and I'm game if you are!
So here it goes...
I am the youngest of 4 kids.
I have a dog Guinness, & a parrot Allen. I rescued Allen in West Hollywood from two hungry hawks. The rest is history. I prefer dogs, but Allen is a piece of work & I laugh constantly at and with him. (Yes, he has a full on belly laugh, it's hilarious!)
Lived overseas for a short time, studied classical piano & was flute player, I raced J-24’s in Chesapeake Bay, then moved to California & am learning to sail tall ships now.
I was a long-distance cyclist few years ago & completed multiple century rides >medal photo< but now just ride for fun. I've toured Canada, Montana, Wyoming & Idaho. I camped, but I think nowadays I’d settle for a nice hotel room w/hot shower & a glass of wine instead of a tent! Bike pics are 6 yrs ago- full disclosure.
I've jumped out of a perfectly good airplane but wouldn’t describe myself as a huge risk taker. One and done.
Career-wise, I settled on dental hygiene, but this year I started my own company importing handmade lighting from Ukraine.
I do my best & always love a good challenge.
I have 2 amazing children. Grad pic 2023.
There's a bucket list of things I want to do, places to visit & skills to learn…
Quick wit is my favorite humor type (among many) especially Monty Python.
I hope you’ll send a message to get the dialogue rolling! I don't bite...!
About her ideal match
I’ve been single long enough! Loving my independence, but missing and wanting a companion for conversation to start with, and who shares similar curiosity of the human experience, travel, culture, music, love of nature and animals (especially dogs!) and wide variety of activities….. I'm ready to enrich my life with someone & hope to enrich in return. If we click, I’ll be your biggest cheerleader & bring kindness, enthusiasm, inspiration & copious amounts of humor.
I will be respectful of & fully enjoy your individuality, including any quirks & nuances that come with the whole package of just being 'you'.
That's the good stuff in my humble opinion.
Inspire and explore; do you seek the same?
"I'm not dead, YET...."
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
San Diego, California | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
England; Scotland; Northern Ireland | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
57 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Baseball; Camping; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Rock climbing; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Socially |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Power |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |









