In His Own Words
About him
Thank you for viewing my profile. It's difficult to see yourself as other people do, but I would say I was a no messing person of friendly and even temperament. I am a widower, hoping to meet a nice lady (65-77 please) to share days, possibly holidays. I would like to think I'm kind, with a good sense of humour, and am looking for a genuine relationship. I show respect and expect this in return. I live alone with a 12 year old Labrador, who is convinced she is the boss (and probably is) , but I would like to have another special person in my life too.
I should perhaps say that I'm not looking for a meal ticket, and I don't offer one, but I do come with a 24 Carat 'No Bull' Guarantee. I'm a non smoker, short haired, clean shaven, with no body piercings, tattoos etc. 'One Night Stands' and 'Friends with Benefits' are not my thing. To my knowledge, I've never been a scammer, con man, player, keyboard warrior, gym bunny, toy boy etc, and I would probably be pushed to become one now if I ever wanted to anyway 😂 I'm not a super fit, all singing, all dancing 'Alpha Male', but I would like to think I was honest trustworthy and reliable. If we meet, I will be as happy to listen to your story as to tell you mine
Now I've got all the above off my chest (and assuming you haven't nodded off by now), thank you for reading my profile! As they so often go nowhere, I no longer send or respond to 'likes', but I always reply to messages as I think it's rude not to. Except in the most extreme circumstances, I do not 'block' anybody who has been kind enough to view my profile, as again I see this as unnecessary and rude.
To make it possible to meet regularly, I'm looking to meet somebody preferably living 25-50 miles around Sheffield. My profile photos were taken 2024 and 2025, so for better or worse what you get is pretty much what you see 😂.
About his ideal match
I am looking for a hopefully long term kind and tolerant friendship/relationship. I show respect and regard this as essential
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sheffield, Yorkshire - South, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
76 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district S11 (Sheffield) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
65 - 77 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Gaelic / Irish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Optimistic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Business news; Internet; Meditation; Music; Voluntary work |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |