In His Own Words
About him
Fairly fit, very active, with a passion for nature, beautiful wild scenery. I love hillwalking and just absorbing the views and listening to birdsong. Build is formerly athletic, and slightly ropy around the edges, and not as quick over 50m as I used to be. Still enjoy playing cricket and I love wild swimming. That feeling of plunging into the sea on a wild coast, and bumping into the odd seal. Or being checked out by a kingfisher (both true!). My other hobbies are water colour painting, choral singing, reading, and being out and about in the countryside. Not very good at ironing, but am a reasonably good cook (stews a speciality), even if I say so. My much missed old dog enjoyed the leftovers at any rate and he lived till 17. I rest my case. I enjoy many different kinds of music, from opera to folk.
Professionally, am very content and fulfilled. Teach/research at university, and enjoy trying to inspire students. I travel extensively with work, often to fairly wild places, and I enjoy going where few others have been before, but am increasingly drawn to explore my own country much more too. Not much beats a pub nosh after a day of trudging along public footpaths moaning that the signs have been taken down, and snooping enviously at rural retreats, especially those with sea views.
I'm outgoing, emotionally warm (Celtic) and have a dry sense of humour. Would love to meet someone like-minded, who enjoys seeing the funny side of things just as well as reflecting on matters more serious. Balance is everything. Someone to stroll with or just read together on cosy shabby sofa in a hillside farmhouse (holiday rental!). HEALTH WARNING TO READERS OF THIS: I sing in the shower (tenor).
About his ideal match
Looking to make a sincere and meaningful connection with someone with shared outlook, values, joy in simple pleasures and an appreciation for a tenor voice belting out Welsh dirges up a track in the mountains or overlooking a stormy sea. Someone with curiosity about and a love for nature, bright, kind and likes dogs!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
58 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Painting; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Hiking; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |