In His Own Words
About him
Passionate and a good heart.
I have lived around the UK. Never married and no children. Partly due to being told that I was unable to have any when I was 20 (later I found out this was a misdiagnosis). This, and a difficult upbringing, meant that while I have had several relationships, they did not last.
In recent years I have done a lot of work on myself and feel much better equipped to find a long term relationship.
I am very loyal, will be open and honest, and will support a partner fully. And I look for the same in return.
I spent most of my life pursuing chemistry and the spark but I realise now, while these are important, compatibility in values and the fundamentals is essential.
I am also a riot and a very good listener :D
About his ideal match
Independent, smart, kind, loyal - a genuine partner and companion who will challenge me and call me out when I am an idiot but support me those times I need .
The only deal breaker is being in an relationship or situtationship already.
What His Friends Say
Anastasia said...
My friend Antony is a smashing lad. He has a terrific sense of humour, is very popular and has been a great friend for many many years. He is thoughtful, generous, and an excellent host.
Antony is originally from the North of England so you'll love his Lancashire accent. He has twinkly green eyes and a lovely smile. He is warm hearted person and a hopeless romantic!
He loves literature (all kinds, but especially Russian), films (all kinds, The Big Lebowski is a favourite, as is Grosse Point Blank), and most importantly he is a talented artist (recently shortlisted for the Independent's art prize). He's an ex-teenage goth but likes many kinds of contemporary music.
He loves to travel abroad when he gets the chance and has many friends around the world. He works in IT and is a very successful manager of a large team.
Antony is a good listener and a wonderful conversationalist!
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CT1 (Canterbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Shy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Card games; Computer & video games; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Boxing; Chess; Football (Soccer); Running; Scuba diving; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |