In Her Own Words
About her
I am quiet until you get to know me yet adventurous in all the RIGHT ways. I may contradict myself, but never you. I may be overly loving and affectionate but I'm fussy, so it'll only ever be with you.
I'm hungry for EVERYTHING in life but I'm vegan. It doesn't mean you have to be but I love animals more than the average person so you'll have to appreciate that and them, and the fact that I may possibly want to share my life again with one. It also means you'll have to speak to the chef beforehand and never force me to eat beef roulade "just this once". I love a man that can cook for me...or be wanting to learn.
I want to be with a MAN. To me that is someone who cries, someone who isn't necessarily the man around town, someone who's been around the bend literally, survived and still remained honest, kind and hopeful for a wonderful future. Driving me around the bend is fine, I'd like you to take me for midnight drives. You have to, I live out in the country and you may be a city boy. That's okay too - I know a good Wellington boot store, so be prepared. I’ll be needing a fine gentleman to escort me to the theatre, plays, musicals, museums, heritage
sites, etc
I'll like to look at you a lot, with admiration, so please make sure youre someone to be admired –
drive in everything you do, commitment in everything you do, loyalty to everyone not just me and of
course I don't want to cringe at your jokes so think before you speak. I don't laugh at smut, I don't find demeaning others funny.
I'm a charity worker and student Counsellor you see, I befriended a child that was dying and my paid work sees me employed with the mentally ill. My life is challenging,
I don't think that will change and I need a mature man that can cope with that.
I’m an old fashioned girl. I don’t expect you to be able to waltz but if you’re looking for a modern woman we won’t make it. I love to travel, I can come up with a bucket list if you’d like. South Africa calls...if the right man does first of course...
About her ideal match
Please see the last question above, it took me an age to write. But I will add this...he must have integrity, drive, ambition and a sense of humour that will produce girly giggles even when I’m 80...
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district BT22 (Newtownards) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
37 - 46 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Mild; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Mercy |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; New Age |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Dance; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soulmatches: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Very |
