In Her Own Words
About her
Hello strangers. New to this so forgive me if I say the wrong thing. I’m a writer and academic with no intellectual pretensions. I do what I love and don’t care about the labels. Born in Tokyo, grew up there and in the UK. Now live in Berlin but spend a lot of time in the UK and can be anywhere.
Friends would say I have a bad habit of doing what makes sense to me, not what a well-trained human is supposed to do. And that I'm a generous lifelong friend. And fun. For the record, my exes all say the same - I’m quite proud of that :)
I love writing and thinking (and do both for a modest living), photographing nature and all the different shapes of things, walking, climbing medium-sized mountains, swimming, singing, animals, watching films and miniseries, scotch, and my lovely friends. Dislikes? Closed minds. I like people who are open to rethinking at least some of their dislikes. Think and think again as long as your brain works - that’s what makes life more interesting than ever when you’re older...
About her ideal match
Hope to meet someone who can laugh at himself and have fun, who's open and honest, generous, confident, kind. Bog standard wish list really.
What would make things work with us: It's Good To Talk. Even about the really awkward things. A bit of silliness always good too.
What to Share with a partner: long and short walks, travel, sex (should head list, but that'd be too obvious), films, conversations about all sorts of things.
Deal breaker: if you disappear into long self-absorbed tunnels and expect me to be there waiting at the end, I probably won’t be.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Japan | |
Location: |
Berlin, Berlin, Germany | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
German; Japanese; Russian | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Belgium; Germany; Ireland; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Opera; Rock; World |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Interests: |
Music; Photography; Politics; Writing books |
Sports: |
Swimming |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Honesty: |
Extremely |